First Impression

Recently I began to ponder what is wrong first impression. With many people with whom I was acquainted, my first impression never coincided with further understand man. I was either disappointed, or, on the contrary was in shock from that so this person pleasant. A few days ago has happened to me this story which I didn't understand.

 I sat quietly in class, as always listened to music and flying in the clouds. My thoughts on the usefulness of humanity in our world broke my classmate. Between us there was a short dialogue, which later moved to the small but fascinating conversation. After some time she asked me a question, which I did not expect to hear. Do you love the stars? Such a simple question, but asked it was completely out of place. I gave my point of view about the stars, and answered that I attract only the winter stars are cold and unfeeling, they are rarely seen, and when they Shine they seem Grand and unattainable. And said that I didn't love the summer stars, because they give your light to everyone in the district, and it seems that you can before they reach with your hand, they seem carefree don't care how some people in our world. Taken aback by my answer, she will try to change the subject, and my hopes for a more productive conversation finally collapsed.After the lesson, she waited for me and said a few words: "You're cold guy Lenar, during our conversation I came to the conclusion that you are quite complicated man with whom it is not easy to communicate." I was just amazed by this turn of events, but still wanted to answer. But no sooner had I scat word she fled. Then I wondered, is it really possible to make a conclusion about the person after a few minutes of conversation? Learning the identity of the person,what he is, what his character takes a very long time. In General I am convinced that her conclusion is wrong, and me, as confirmed by many of my friends, very easy to communicate with. 

 You can make a little conclusion that is known all over the world, not to judge a person on first impression, try to know him better, and maybe he or she will be the one that you have been looking for all your life.

Happiness.

What is a happiness for us? Many people will answer that the happiness is their family. Many girls say I met the one and now I'm happier all, and oddly enough they continue to talk when you begin to meet with others. This is a very fun looks from the outside. It turns out that happiness for them is just a word. But, is there a true, genuine happiness? 

If the honor, I can't answer this question. Most likely happiness for each different. Everyone understands it differently, for some it's money, for some it's children. But everyone in this world can not find true happiness, at least I have never met such people. I think happiness is the ability to make someone a different person, change it. As strange as it sound, and goes to the roots inconsistent with my worldview, but happiness is not to live for themselves. Not to be selfish and to find someone whom you can make really happy. Infinite happiness allows us does not set limits, to decide for themselves. Every man has his notion of the word. Perhaps the reader thinks, his thoughts themselves are not agreed and he writes nonsense. With what hand you're right in saying that my actions and thoughts are not quite the same. But, what's the difference? You can think one thing and says different. This is the beauty of thinking, you can think anything and everything is left to you, unless of course you're not going to want someone to share it. I share only sometimes, because the world itself is destined to judge the thoughts of the people, if their opinion does not coincide with the opinion of the majority. We can conclude that to go on about the society is too stupid.

Worldwide wound so that the majority opinion leaves behind the opinion of individuals. It is individuals who think differently, finds creative solutions to problems. I despise cliches, it's always boring to live according to the pattern. Although I live in, sometimes making my life something new. As you can see this confirmation of my words. You can think and plan the most beautiful in your opinion, but act quite differently. In my opinion it is a sign of weakness. I consider myself a bit of a weak man, who much afraid. Fear is another characteristic of a person that has no boundaries. I'll write about this in a different time. 

Thank you all for your attention.

What will be in this blog?

What will be in this blog? 

I'd say what does it means "Russian melancholy. To be honest - nothing. This is a common name, which took the head late in the evening in my head. Here will be published poem of my own composition, as well as thoughts and observations. 

Probably, should tell you a little bit about myself. I was born and raised in Russia, and after high school moved to live in Canada. When I arrived in another country, I was introverted, terribly shy and always was one. Probably many of you have experienced on this. What was my surprise when I was told that I absolutely emotionless and never smile. 

What can you say about emotions? Many people disagree with me but emotions are a weakness of man. When other people don't see what you feel, they cannot use it against you. You can tell people what they want to hear and they won't know what you really think. You become what they want to see you, and only some of you can demonstrate this yourself. I can say that as emotions ruin of man, and unattainable dreams destroy him. To set himself a daunting task, defying the fate that is silly. 

This is just my opinion. Agree with him or not, only your decide. If You have my like-minded friends, then welcome. 

That's all. See you in my blog.